Intuition is only as useful as your willingness to take the leap and listen to it. Even when it is uncomfortable and most certainly when it is inconvenient.
The stories of not getting on the plane that crashed because someone “had a feeling” are incredible because most of us WOULD have brushed or buried whatever feeling aside and have still gotten on the plane. The ticket was purchased, good money was paid, there was somewhere to be — why not get on the plane?!
If you’re serious about honing your intuition, be willing to be uncomfortable. Following it might lead to:
- Telling your riding instructor that you’re going to be late to your lesson because your horse needs to be lunged more before you get on
- Telling your instructor that you’d rather pass on your riding lesson today because you neither like nor trust your horse’s behavior
- Buy the horse anyways
- Call the vet/farrier/body worker out anyways, even when there is no logical or seen reason to do so
If I am being honest with myself, the times I have gotten hurt from a horse, I knew I shouldn’t have gotten on the horse to begin with. Every. Single. Time.
Developing your intuition doesn’t begin with the “big” decisions like to ride or not to ride or to call the vet out or buy the horse anyways. It starts with following through on the little nudges.
- Reaching out to the person on your mind
- Having the uncomfortable conversation you’ve been dreading for weeks
- Doing the chores around the house that you have been putting off
If you don’t honor the nudges (which come from your intuition) in these little ways, it will be a lot harder to follow your intuition in larger ways.
- What are the conversations you are avoiding? With whom? List them out and take steps to have those conversations. Don’t put them off any longer.
- Who are 5 people that you have been meaning to reach out to be haven’t yet? Reach out to them.
- Where else in your life do you feel unease? Why? the question out until something comes to you.